Friday, April 17, 2009

Fairytale Ending?

I'm sure everyone read a fairytale story in their lifetime...
From Rapunzel up to the Wizard of Oz, each of them has a good ending..
But if you ponder on it for a while longer... Did their stories end there, or it is just a beginning?

Take Cinderella for example...
First, of course, being bullied by the step family and the end, married with the Prince Charming.
The End... ?

What IF, Cinderella getting married to the hot prince wasn't the last page of the bedtime storybook?

Can the married couple live through happily ever after knowing the huge gap of their status?
What if the prince is a womanizer and has lots of scandal after marriage?

When everyone reads the fairytale, they would expect a Happy Ending. When everyone is satisfied with that ending, people will close the book and call it a day.
The point is....


We as human, actually decides how we end our story.


There is no such thing as we wait for an happy ending to come. Reality doesn't work that way.
If we don't work for the desired ending, It may never come. And sometimes, it is ourselves who choose to end our story abruptly or a bad way. So, who is we to blame..
There are people out there who always say that they don't mean to end it that way. But did you realise the problem had already started at the built up of your story?

Hence, if you dont like your "story", keep on "writing" till your desired ending...
Don't whine... Move on...

Wednesday, April 8, 2009

It ain't about how hard you can hit.



Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It is a very mean and nasty place and it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life.

But it ain't about how hard you hit; it's about how hard you can get hit, and keep moving forward. How much you can take, and keep moving forward. That's how winning is done.

Now, if you know what you're worth, then go out and get what you're worth. But you gotta be willing to take the hit, and not pointing fingers saying you ain't where you are because of him, or her, or anybody. Cowards do that and that ain't you. You're better than that!


-Rocky Balboa-
Speaking to his son in Rocky Balboa (2006)

These few days at home, my mom always say that the person my parents worry the most in the family is me. All because I don't seem to get what I always want and I still dream of getting that something in life.

When I replied
"I'm the last person anyone should worry about"
Bullets come flying to my face saying that this is the problem with me. Getting over confident and all. When I say I'm not, they always try to make me believe that I am...

Seriously, I know the answer. I am not over confident. I just truly understands how things work in life better than most of the people out there of my age. Things never comes easy for me and it still does, even now. Should I just give in and and let the environment lead my life?

The obvious answer is No rite. But most of the people just wont understand it when I explain this verbally.. When I say I'm the last person to worry about doesn't mean I am Over Confident, Unrealistic and Still Dreaming.

Its just I understand that in this world, if we can't find a will to move on. We won't be able to get to what we want as well. When people and situations forces us down to our knees, its always up to us to stand up and stand against their will. This is how we shape our world, and quoting above,

This is how winning is done...

remember, this world ain't about rainbow and sunshine. However, we can always find our rainbow and sunshine if we are willing to take the hits. Its about how much you can take and keep moving forward...

However, should I really be the last person one should worry about? This, I'm really not sure...


Saturday, April 4, 2009

Different Light

Days had past since "judgment" day...
And I'm still strong, alive, and accepting facts bit by bit...

It is now I see things in a very different light, just when all my plans started to crumble down from the sky....

To most of us, we think we can see the world by having yourself at the top. But sometimes, things are to be seen when you're down below. Only with the combination of both, we can see everything.

I used to be so hype and positive, I always think that everything is going to be alright. The funny thing is, everything really did turn out ALRIGHT!!! However, when one thing goes wrong, you will feel helpless thinking that its the end of the road for you.

Its only we fall, we have the opportunity to raise up again....

Last time i remember my friend kept asking me what is the difference of a perfect 10 with a 9?
My first answer was, the difference is obvious. 10 is better than 9!!
Then I went home and think again, is it necessary that 10 is always better? And here comes my final conclusion, if we have a 9, we will always know that we have room to improve and develop ourselves. With this in mind, it will suppress our pride.

In this light, a near perfect score of 9 will be better than a perfect 10.

I'm beginning to to see things differently, Its slow but its definitely progressing....

Thanks for all your support in pulling me through. Its only now I've learn there are many people around me.. lol.. And its now I know what there are many people reading this post... Including some people who I don't expect at all.

Btw, a lot of people asked why I look so differently from how I portray in life. Look at the header, this is where I unmask. But don't worry, I'm still real with or without the mask. Just that I don't want so many people worry about me sometimes..haha

Take care....